I have a pack of 10 animals--me & my partner, 6 dogs, and 2 cats. I love animals and used to work for recovery groups, and couldn't stand to see an animal put down because it couldn't find a home. After I ended up with 8 animals in my house, I wondered what I had gotten myself into.
Before I started reading about dog training, I had no idea about what a pack leader was. I treated my animals like children, being polite to them, and trying to give them everything they wanted. What a mistake! Once I heard about being the pack leader, I researched it, and here is some of what I came up with.
Basically, being the pack leader means convincing your dogs that you are in charge. You need to be the pack leader whether there is just your and you dog in the house, or like me, you and 8 dogs and 2 cats and a human partner. Every dog trainer I've read says this. The trick is, how?
The pack leader makes the decisions for everyone--where to go on a walk, how to behave in a given situation, and how to respond to all the strange and mysterious doggie things out there. To understand how to establish yourself as pack leader, try to understand that human things mean nothing to a doggie, for instance, whether you drive a Cadillac or a clunker, or whether you live in a chateau or a shanty, They don't care how many PhDs you've earned. A doggie would happily swap all of your moola for a munchie! So we have to understand how a dog thinks, and how a pack works in the wild, if we want to become an effective leader. It's like learning a foreign culture. You can't lead the people without knowing their language!
A common mistake people make comes from frustration. You can't stand that barking anymore, or you're so sick of the dog chewing on your stuff! So you let the anger through, and control your dog through domination. Dominating your dog is not a good way to become the pack leader (and remember that is our goal--too become an effective pack leader); in fact, this can backfire badly if you teach your dog that physical strength is what it is all about. Domination may force your dog into submission temporarily, but it won't convince your dogs that you are worthy of the position. Also, it will not bring peace into your house if you are yelling all the time, and you won't feel good about yourself, either.
So how do you become the pack leader? All dogs, no matter where they live or what their breed is, choose their pack leader the same way:
Calm in the Face of Danger: When you dog barks, trying to alert you to danger, you must calmly observe what he sees and quietly tell him that it is okay. Never yell at him to shut up, as he will think you're joining in.
Shepherd of the Flock: On the walk, you must be the leader, showing your dog which way to go. If your dog begins to pull on the lead, turn in the other direction. Keep doing this until he follows calmly. Your dog should not pull you, even in the beginning, or he'll assume that he is the leader.
Strong but Silent: If your dog is always switched on, full of energy, and can't relax, it could be that he thinks that he is the pack leader. As you establish yourself as the leader, he'll take time off. Make sure you only give him attention or treats ON YOUR TERMS. if he bothers you when you don't want it, don't look at him and just give him a light shove away. He'll learn to respond when you want to give him attention, and you'll have more peace in your house.
Proud Returning Hunter: When you come home (returning from the hunt), go about your business, ignoring your dogs, until they settle down. This is how the pack leader behaves in the wild. Once the dogs settle down, call them over one by one and say hello. This is an important part of being the pack leader, and it is not mean, like ignoring humans. Dogs see this ignorance as your security in leading them.
Controller of the Food: Before I started studying about dog training, I had the dog food and cat food available in bowls on the floor 24/7. I wasn't keen on having to go through the process of feeding 8 animals every day, and it was just easier to let them eat how and when they wanted to. It was a big mistake. They were demanding more and more. Now I feed them twice a day, and pick up the food when they're done. Remember: whoever controls the food, controls the pack.
Becoming the pack leader is a slow process that is very rewarding. When everyone knows their place, peace reigns. Take it step by step, spend time with your dogs, and reap the rewards of a wonderful, fun, and balanced relationship.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
This article was written by Ninoku Takahashi, dog lover.
She used to work in dog recovery services, and ended up taking home 6 dogs and 2 cats! Because of this, she has become involved in all aspects of life with pets.
Pet dog training is especially important, because without peace in your home, you can't have fun, sing doggie songs, or do anything other than discipline.
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"God Bless you and your pets, and I wish you long life and happiness!" --Ninoku Takahashi
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